Why we lose confidence so easily?
First of all what is confidence?
Literally speaking means
1) Trust or faith in a person or thing.
2) A trusting relationship: I took them into my confidence.
3)
- (a) That which is confided; a secret: A friend does not betray confidences.
- (b) A feeling of assurance that a confidant will keep a secret: I am telling you this in strict confidence.
4) A feeling of assurance, especially of self-assurance.
5) The state or quality of being certain: I have every confidence in your ability to succeed
Practically Its all about believing in ones own ability and achieving the targets with those abilities. This is what we lose when we lose confidence. But the
Question is why, why we are so fragile in life?
We are used to achieving targets easily without much work and whole system makes even a confident person in the same way by providing poor training and easy
options. If this is the way the system then most us are vulnerable to losing confidence.So for a healthy society system should make arrangements for
personality development in which confidence is integral part.
We will see next post how to stop losing it