Why do we want to make friends?
“What idiotic question”, if we think so then we are fools, why you know? Because we don’t know actually why we are making friendship. This is an absolute truth which most of us deny. If you analyze the friendships you are having then it looks totally different than what you are managing it as.
I can prove this to you repeatedly, in your life.
Don’t think that I am speaking about some rubbish topic here; this is one of the most important aspect of life. This can save lot of energy and time for you if you can apply it from today. To start with I would like to tell you how we are not making correct friends, because we don’t know why we are making friends.
See a boy making a friendship with a girl who is his neighbor or classmate has a basic motto that is she is near to him so interaction is almost daily basis so likes keeping the communication free so that while expressing he can express freely. But this may not be 100% true. This as a boy or as a girl you might have experienced. Here I am not telling that every have a friendship going have a second motto which is unwarranted, but fact is this friendship with subconscious motto going to cost you time and energy more that what is required until unless you consciously kill the subconscious motto of friendship.
If some body is telling that they think friendship is all about accepting “a friend as he or she is” rather than asking for modification, then I call it as bullshit as that will be an ideal situation which you can see hardly on this mother earth.
Wait for my next post where I would like to tell you how to maximize time and energy by redefining the friendship. Till then good-bye.