Simple formula to make life happier and vibrant

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Can you give me exactly five minutes for reading this, I can show you the simple formula for happier life in less than that five minutes. Yes it takes less than five minutes to understand the simple formula for happier life but implementation of the same may take many more minutes to years depending on YOU.

Life becomes sorrowful or stressful depending what we do or what we think. But same things came give better results or outputs if you are prepared for it. Everyone knows that everyone cannot be prepared for every thing in ones life time, but every one is worried about the outcome of every thing hey come across.

So simple formula for happier life goes this way.

Step one
Stop thinking about the things where you cannot do anything – like rain, sunrise, temp outside your home or office etc or for that matter somebody else’s action

Step two
Plan for long term and act for short term – Means plan for few years not for life and act for short terms means days not minutes. Do all your work this way

Step Three
Prepare for the worst outcome and get ready for best outcome. Meaning prepare an alternate plan if your action brings in a worst thing and plan for celebration if you get max out of your action.

Step four
When compromise on your family or personal life for others work until it is life saving or world saving action

Step Five
Never give away every thing to others in anticipation – it is applicable to every aspect of life, let it be money secrets, property, knowledge

Step Six
Prepare for Securing all you have in unfortunate departure – including you dear ones life, your money, your knowledge etc

I am going reveal one of the best and worst friend of mankind in my next post just guess if you can. It will be a surprise

Why your life is so dull?

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Life is dull, life is boring, monotonous life is so boring and so on is the usual cribbing of many in life. But ultimately one thing remains unanswered there are so many people on this earth who feel is life evergreen and vibrant and goes on and on. They even enjoy their life to max and they are never bothered about the disgusting thinking of dull life. Why this dichotomy in life? Have you ever thought about this? If not think today and think about this to change the way you live your life.

I have undergone these many a times but I discovered that only one thing that changes the life is “YOU” yes that is you nobody else.

You may be thinking what is this, how can this be possible and many more things you think as possibilities. But fact remains same it is YOU who matters no body else. Because its your life and only you can think about your self from your angle everyone else think about you in their angle rather than from yours so its you who matters not anyone else, not even your wife or parents or kids.

Don’t ask me that “it means wife/ husband, parents, kids are of no consequence”. Who told that they are of no consequence in your life, they are all having their own limits and so they have limited effect on you. You life depends on how “YOU” take them rather than what they have done to YOU.

So if you want life to be vibrant, joyful, lively then change your mind set and see difference in your life. Wait for me in next post, I will show you how simple it is to change the mind set and become happier than what you are.

How to maximize time and energy by redefining friendship?

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Yes last time I spoke about the friendship in a negative aspect, but this time I am talking to you in an positive aspect of the same topic. You may be one of them who have lot of friends and using your time to keep up your friendship intact by doing one or the other thing for them. But have you ever thought how much time you are using to keep up your friendship? Do you thing the amount of time and energy (I an not even talking about money) spent on this is worth or you don’t know?

Then see here how you can maximize the things and save much more time and energy.

You have to first take a notepad and pen/ pencil of noting purpose. List your friends in your first column. Next column make a point to list number of hours you use for the friends against each name of first column. Third column list the important events you missed for friend or not committing your time family at the same time. Now the important column, list out the friendship motto you have with the friend you spend time.

Just four columns to analyze but you make a fifth column for action. What is this action? This is the most important aspect of this whole exercise. Once you have written the list of friends and the time spent against each and loss or potential loss you had due the same, you have to decide first the loss and spent time are worth what it is or a loss.

Once you decide that has been a loss then this is time for redefining your friendship. How to redefine friendship? Its easy and at the same time difficult. Say you have a so called friend at office and you think that he or she is essential for you work to go smoothly, so made a friendship and spending time. But now you decide whether is the person who is the cause for the loss really worth the time you have spent. Because most of the times you work is specified and limited by law and rules of any organization, but we think that we have been burdened so takes others help and then we think they are essential for our work. In other words first redefine your work and cut the helps you require and make a trial to work independently. If you succeed to do it then you don’t require help so it becomes easy to you redefine the friendship and more fruitful days are spent with the friends worth your time, most important friends will be your family members. Think about this and take action and enjoy more time with your true friends.

See you soon with more experience and helpful tips.