Why we lose confidence so easily?

Why we lose confidence so easily?

First of all what is confidence?

Literally speaking means

1)    Trust or faith in a person or thing.

2)    A trusting relationship: I took them into my confidence.

3)

    (a) That which is confided; a secret: A friend does not betray confidences.
    (b) A feeling of assurance that a confidant will keep a secret: I am telling you this in strict confidence.

4)    A feeling of assurance, especially of self-assurance.

5)    The state or quality of being certain: I have every confidence in your ability to succeed

Practically Its all about believing in ones own ability and achieving the targets with those abilities. This is what we lose when we lose confidence. But the

Question is why, why we are so fragile in life?

We are used to achieving targets easily without much work and whole system makes even a confident person in the same way by providing poor training and easy

options. If this is the way the system then most us are vulnerable to losing confidence.So for a healthy society system should make arrangements for

personality development in which confidence is integral part.

We will see next post how to stop losing it

Which color of cloths to choose for life?

Do you believe in this different colour of clothes make any difference to your mood? Then better know it more rather than thinking about it. There are many colors in life you may not want to wear it but that may be actually suiting you.

This is not a trial based data facts or some scientific research paper, so be warned that this is just an experience in life which I am expressing here for he sake helping others with my experience. Try to consult you health professional or concerned professional authority before changing any matter pertaining to your life which you may feel is important in your life.

Ok Coming back to topic of today, white color supposed to be one which promotes peace. SO when ever you need a mind with peace use white cloths (See every one knows white cloth is good in summers, so here I am not covering the scientific part). Black is considered as royal color, meaning it absorbs so many non-senses, so when ever you want to be generous to others wear black dress. Black has many other effects also but important effect is sufficient. Green indicative of prosperity use it when you want be naturally fresh. Saffron (orangish) color is indicative of sacrifice so when ever in a mood of giveaway ten use orange color.

There is no end to describe the effects of cloth color on life on day to day basis. So simplest thing to notice here is different color has difference mood effect so try hem and choose them. Have wonderful colorful life.

How to develop an addiction for good?

Who told you that addiction is bad? Parents? Friends? Teacher? Anyone most of the times they are correct, but have you ever thought you can develop addiction to good things, that can make you happier, richer or good addict.

How to develop good addiction? It may look as a stupid idea but it remains a fact that if you develop you a good addiction then your output will be more than one without it. So to start with I would advice you to focus on your day to day habits and acts which make you more satisfied or relaxed. If you were able to locate the most relaxing or satisfying daily activity then you are half way through. Now its time to act – you need to daily feed to your mind with your requirement, and try to practice it on daily basis. If you can’t do it on daily basis then at least do it as frequently as possible so that your good addiction grows as much as you want.

Don’t get fooled by the simplicity of this formula to develop good addiction. Try it to believe then tell me what you feel. Give at least 6 to 8 weeks time to see effects.

Good Luck to develop good addiction

Sreenivasa