Ok!! they are here

1. Love
2. Knowledge
3. Money
4. Power

This life is full of materials which are in one or the other way required to lead life in good way. But think about these words you will be amazed how dull this life without these. But unfortunately these words what they mean to each one of us is totally different, that’s why it also carry different meaning and weightage as per situation you and me are in.

As I mentioned earlier these things are very difficult to get in there purest forms. If you can get these then you can be rest assured that your life is near salvation point. Which you may not want to meet so early because you are enjoying the real beauty of these four words in their purest forms.

Be warned while playing with these words and try to be slightly away from their purest form.

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Are you doing it day in day out because your boss is not recognizing your work work and not even ready to say he or she has this work or your subordinates not listening to your command?

Take it easy because you are not achieving anything by shouting, except asking for unwanted enemies, like coronary artery disease , hypertension and other lifestyle disorder’s entry into your life.

If you really think about shouting in real sense, you are not going to achieve anything by do it. Because the things need to be done are need to be done. Until and unless the person doing is not convinced that the work has to be done he or she will not be doing the same, in other words your losing your temperament  and losing friends that’s it nothing else.

As explained earlier if you don’t want those enemies at your door step kindly just stop shouting at your work place or at home and just see in 1 week how much peace of mind you will get and how much productivity increases.

Take care, keep smiling and stop shouting.

If you still have doubt that you are not working as any team, then just analyze the situation I am quoting below if you still believe that you are not in a team then I fail you to convince that human is a social ANIMAL.

Situation

small shop keeper runs a retail shop on his own he brings the article he is selling from the wholesale market on his own and arranging the shop and making business on his own. He also takes timely break as per his schedule. In other words he is running an one man show. Now you may say “where is the team?”

Just analyze it, he goes to market for his daily shop needs and he has to do bargain and make some compromise here and there to gain more profit and continue his daily activities. Here he needs support at home front by his spouse and he need to be a regular customer at wholesale shop so that he gets max out of his efforts and even he needs support for one or the other smaller jobs from friends or daily wages worker.

If you see here if he makes a team with a wrong person – may be wife, may be wholesaler or daily wage worker then his profit going to drop significantly, in other words he is losing is efforts potential benefits.

If you believe in getting maximum out of your business or work then consider building a team with in what ever is available to you. Even if you are working in an organization still use your skill to build a team which can help you to get maximum from any situation. All you need to do is understand your weakness and get those people into your team who are strong in your areas of weakness. so that your team will be stronger from all aspects.

By enlarge this means just build good team and get maximum benefit out of any situation.

Most of don’t know when lost or losing because we don’t know how we gained it. If we start analyzing what we can do about it first thing to do is analyze your life and jot down your strong points in life along with weak points. Once you have done that you know how you built that strong point and why it has became your strong point and same way weak points.

Most of the time it is because we have knowledge of the strong points and practicing them and reverse is true with weak points. But here is a catch even with strong points sometimes we have lost confidence, that’s because we the situation was stronger than our skill and commitment. If we get them back on track half the battle is won. So get ready to get back your lost pride with confidence.

First of all what is confidence?

Literally speaking means

1)    Trust or faith in a person or thing.

2)    A trusting relationship: I took them into my confidence.

3)

(a) That which is confided; a secret: A friend does not betray confidences.

(b) A feeling of assurance that a confidant will keep a secret: I am telling you this in strict confidence.

4)    A feeling of assurance, especially of self-assurance.

5)    The state or quality of being certain: I have every confidence in your ability to succeed

Practically Its all about believing in ones own ability and achieving the targets with those abilities. This is what we lose when we lose confidence. But the

Question is why, why we are so fragile in life?

We are used to achieving targets easily without much work and whole system makes even a confident person in the same way by providing poor training and easy

options. If this is the way the system then most us are vulnerable to losing confidence.So for a healthy society system should make arrangements for

personality development in which confidence is integral part.

We will see next post how to stop losing it

This is not a trial based data facts or some scientific research paper, so be warned that this is just an experience in life which I am expressing here for he sake helping others with my experience. Try to consult you health professional or concerned professional authority before changing any matter pertaining to your life which you may feel is important in your life.

Ok Coming back to topic of today, white color supposed to be one which promotes peace. SO when ever you need a mind with peace use white cloths (See every one knows white cloth is good in summers, so here I am not covering the scientific part). Black is considered as royal color, meaning it absorbs so many non-senses, so when ever you want to be generous to others wear black dress. Black has many other effects also but important effect is sufficient. Green indicative of prosperity use it when you want be naturally fresh. Saffron (orangish) color is indicative of sacrifice so when ever in a mood of giveaway ten use orange color.

There is no end to describe the effects of cloth color on life on day to day basis. So simplest thing to notice here is different color has difference mood effect so try hem and choose them. Have wonderful colorful life.

How to develop good addiction? It may look as a stupid idea but it remains a fact that if you develop you a good addiction then your output will be more than one without it. So to start with I would advice you to focus on your day to day habits and acts which make you more satisfied or relaxed. If you were able to locate the most relaxing or satisfying daily activity then you are half way through. Now its time to act – you need to daily feed to your mind with your requirement, and try to practice it on daily basis. If you can’t do it on daily basis then at least do it as frequently as possible so that your good addiction grows as much as you want.

Don’t get fooled by the simplicity of this formula to develop good addiction. Try it to believe then tell me what you feel. Give at least 6 to 8 weeks time to see effects.

Good Luck to develop good addiction

Sreenivasa

First Step to stop bad craving: – Locate it

Think as if you are not you, in other words be neutral and then decide what you consider as bad craving. Take social norms you living in and mix with humanity, if any of your craving goes against the good combination of the humanity and social norms then it is bad craving.

Second Step to stop bad craving: – Plan to kill it

Plan to succeed other wise your success will remain a dream. Once you have located your craving that is bad, you need to make up your mind to get rid of it, if you don’t make up your mind then you may not be able to achieve anything. If your mental make up is ready to get rid then you plan it depending on which type of craving you have physical or mental (psychological). If you have mental or psychological craving then you just need to decide to stop the craving to get rid of it, if it is physical then don’t stop it even if you decide to stop without professional advice and care (you may land up in emergency room due to abruptly stopping physical craving). Then plan to treat your mind with incentive for cooperating with you after stopping craving. It may be cup of coffee, ice cream, going out for dinner or even watching a movie.

Third Step to stop bad Craving – Execute it

If you have read step two correctly you have a plan to get rid of craving. Just don’t worry execute it, see the difference in life. Good luck to get rid “Bad Craving”

I will be back with many more, till then see you bye

Sreenivasa

Your success depends upon how much you are able to minimize time waste. After all, what is this time waste? Can you explain to your self, if you can’t then you are not planning your time usage. See, if any one plans his time then he knows what is time management.

Simple way to minimize time wasting is by just planning it to “how to use?”.

Just Take out a paper make three columns

weekdays (Sunday, Monday, Tuesday…Saturday) in first column, second column your daily activities as per weekdays and in third column write about amount of time you required for each. Be realistic, don’t for sake of writing because it is your base to plan. Once you have done this you actually know how much time you need to use every day.

And I can tell you if you focus and plan you can increase your productivity at least by 200% even after spending good amount of time with your family or near and dear ones.

Take care, see you soon with more materials for making life happier and easy.

Sreenivasa

Have you ever thought about this?
OK if not,  first let me get it clear for you. See desire is one thing that drives human from inside for any work. But when this desire start working on human involuntarily then it takes the name craving, in other words desire’s extreme positive aspect is craving. So anyone having a craving means that he or she is having strong desire for the same.

So this desire or craving can be enemy or friend of human mankind depending up on the desire anyone is having. Example an desire for money can be disastrous at the same time it can be most innovative moment of someone’s life depending on the type of work he or she choose to make money.

That means it can act both ways, depending upon the mode of action or type of action mankind will be affected. Some wise person told, ” Desire is the root cause of sorrow”, but if you don’t have desire then what is your motivational factor? So have good desires or craving and achieve much more than what you think is possible in your lifetime.

You many be worried about bad cravings creeping into you, let me show you how to stop them easily in my next post till then see you bye.