Think about the world which has the accessibility to this info still faces so many problem in getting accurate info because this world of information hides so much for the sake of premium even the person or projects who are giving away free valuable information are looked at with suspicion.

Even the Authority websites don’t give complete information on so many subjects because of what ever the reason, search engines in the name of there own algorithm and business interest don’t give away the actual words people are searching for & the information provider who don’t want to give good information and make a buck plays around the algorithm of search engines to make this info world more jumbled up & add to to suspicious infoseekers’s confusion.

Keeping in view these confusing and intermixing interests of different people make this life on info world beautiful and engaging at the same time keep the level of suspicion high in informed people and sometime mislead people without this knowledge.

Latest entry to confusion and info is SOPA or what ever the act people supporting and opposing. Both sides has its plus and minus aspect. Till the community sets its own standard it will remains as a confused suspicious world.

Every one of us take a resolution for every year and most of us fail to complete the same. But if we have put some effort in focused manner we could have done that. Any how what ever the reason was the years which gone behind will never come back. At least we will make a simple yet powerful resolution this year ” I will more happier by the end of this year”.

I would suggest few simple steps that keep me happy, they maybe helpful to you in making your this year happier than ever.

Tips to keep you happier than ever

1. Love anyone you know for the good reason
2. Love God’s creation in true spirit
3. Be empathetic rather than sympathetic
4. When ever you need to ask some for help ask that for others first than yourself
5. Try to make some one happy every day before you make yourself happy
6. Love yourselves as a human, and appreciate your efforts and achievement
7. Never ever think you failed – take it as a lesson you learnt that the task cannot be completed by that method

Hope these tips will keep you happier than what you are know for the whole year. Wish you again happy new year 2012.

Yes the same law may not be applicable to emergency and all areas of medical practice but in most of the private systems it is applicable directly or indirectly. Most painful place to see this is where the right to choose patient is not applicable, there if you look from inside the transparency is lacking while choosing the patient for particular level of patient care.

Even though it may be hurting to those who practice it but there has to be transparency in system which has limited resource just because some one with so called links and influence on the system getting preference over others, is at least for me looks unusually shameful as a human ( at least I am not claiming I am 100% prefect but I try to give my best to practice the same).

At the end of the day are we fulfilling the oath we took at the starting of our profession! YES the same old “Hippocratic oath” or the modified modern version of the same.

Just heart felt emotion for a patient who is helpless in front of this nontransparent illogically created professional MONSTER, and waiting for more transparent and logically & ethically built system.

You may say – I never liked the way my elders lived there life at home, that’s why I am staying separate. But if you analyze it properly you learnt the way of life as you parents thought you but you as an individual felt that’s not the correct way so moved away form that. Means your experience or in scientific language learned reflexes says that the mode of life you experienced needs change so you do the things differently or in different direction. so you are doing it that way you want.

So you understood your self in your childhood in a subconscious state but never understood your self in a conscious state as an adult that’s the major factor for your failure to understand your self. It may look small for you at this moment but that’s not the end of the story; its the beginning for the sad story where you live your every day life in sorrow and fail to communicate to the beautiful world that your also beautiful creation of god as others are.

This argument never ends but I will try to write how to put effort to understand your self shortly in this blog. Till then take care.

Sympathy :- You actually have a opinion about others situation depending on your relation with that person and the perception of the situation with your experience.

This post is not about the definitions of these but it is all about the cost you are going to pay of having any one them. Actually speaking you may not bother about others situation which will not cost you anything. But life is like a wheel it turns and sometime it will stop in front of you where you have to act other wise you may lose so many things; this basic fear makes human a social animal who cares for at least his fellow friends and family or community members.

Costliest option among three

1. Don’t Care – No cost
2. Sympathy – Some Cost
3. Empathy – Costliest

First option no explanation needed. Second one most of the time your sympathy stops at the level of your experience in life and relations. So it can never be costlier than empathy; which is by nature gets maximum out of you as you are feeling the situation as the actual person in that situation.

This is not a rocket science but there is some lesson to learn from this, you can be empathetic to others but be careful in helping because the person who cannot make use of your help and get good things out of life can take you into deep troubles. If you still cannot understand this post just post your doubts in comments I will try to answer them.

Good Luck

Ok!! they are here

1. Love
2. Knowledge
3. Money
4. Power

This life is full of materials which are in one or the other way required to lead life in good way. But think about these words you will be amazed how dull this life without these. But unfortunately these words what they mean to each one of us is totally different, that’s why it also carry different meaning and weightage as per situation you and me are in.

As I mentioned earlier these things are very difficult to get in there purest forms. If you can get these then you can be rest assured that your life is near salvation point. Which you may not want to meet so early because you are enjoying the real beauty of these four words in their purest forms.

Be warned while playing with these words and try to be slightly away from their purest form.

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Are you doing it day in day out because your boss is not recognizing your work work and not even ready to say he or she has this work or your subordinates not listening to your command?

Take it easy because you are not achieving anything by shouting, except asking for unwanted enemies, like coronary artery disease , hypertension and other lifestyle disorder’s entry into your life.

If you really think about shouting in real sense, you are not going to achieve anything by do it. Because the things need to be done are need to be done. Until and unless the person doing is not convinced that the work has to be done he or she will not be doing the same, in other words your losing your temperament  and losing friends that’s it nothing else.

As explained earlier if you don’t want those enemies at your door step kindly just stop shouting at your work place or at home and just see in 1 week how much peace of mind you will get and how much productivity increases.

Take care, keep smiling and stop shouting.

If you still have doubt that you are not working as any team, then just analyze the situation I am quoting below if you still believe that you are not in a team then I fail you to convince that human is a social ANIMAL.

Situation

small shop keeper runs a retail shop on his own he brings the article he is selling from the wholesale market on his own and arranging the shop and making business on his own. He also takes timely break as per his schedule. In other words he is running an one man show. Now you may say “where is the team?”

Just analyze it, he goes to market for his daily shop needs and he has to do bargain and make some compromise here and there to gain more profit and continue his daily activities. Here he needs support at home front by his spouse and he need to be a regular customer at wholesale shop so that he gets max out of his efforts and even he needs support for one or the other smaller jobs from friends or daily wages worker.

If you see here if he makes a team with a wrong person – may be wife, may be wholesaler or daily wage worker then his profit going to drop significantly, in other words he is losing is efforts potential benefits.

If you believe in getting maximum out of your business or work then consider building a team with in what ever is available to you. Even if you are working in an organization still use your skill to build a team which can help you to get maximum from any situation. All you need to do is understand your weakness and get those people into your team who are strong in your areas of weakness. so that your team will be stronger from all aspects.

By enlarge this means just build good team and get maximum benefit out of any situation.

Most of don’t know when lost or losing because we don’t know how we gained it. If we start analyzing what we can do about it first thing to do is analyze your life and jot down your strong points in life along with weak points. Once you have done that you know how you built that strong point and why it has became your strong point and same way weak points.

Most of the time it is because we have knowledge of the strong points and practicing them and reverse is true with weak points. But here is a catch even with strong points sometimes we have lost confidence, that’s because we the situation was stronger than our skill and commitment. If we get them back on track half the battle is won. So get ready to get back your lost pride with confidence.

First of all what is confidence?

Literally speaking means

1)    Trust or faith in a person or thing.

2)    A trusting relationship: I took them into my confidence.

3)

(a) That which is confided; a secret: A friend does not betray confidences.

(b) A feeling of assurance that a confidant will keep a secret: I am telling you this in strict confidence.

4)    A feeling of assurance, especially of self-assurance.

5)    The state or quality of being certain: I have every confidence in your ability to succeed

Practically Its all about believing in ones own ability and achieving the targets with those abilities. This is what we lose when we lose confidence. But the

Question is why, why we are so fragile in life?

We are used to achieving targets easily without much work and whole system makes even a confident person in the same way by providing poor training and easy

options. If this is the way the system then most us are vulnerable to losing confidence.So for a healthy society system should make arrangements for

personality development in which confidence is integral part.

We will see next post how to stop losing it