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Simple formula to make life happier and vibrant

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Can you give me exactly five minutes for reading this, I can show you the simple formula for happier life in less than that five minutes. Yes it takes less than five minutes to understand the simple formula for happier life but implementation of the same may take many more minutes to years depending on YOU.

Life becomes sorrowful or stressful depending what we do or what we think. But same things came give better results or outputs if you are prepared for it. Everyone knows that everyone cannot be prepared for every thing in ones life time, but every one is worried about the outcome of every thing hey come across.

So simple formula for happier life goes this way.

Step one
Stop thinking about the things where you cannot do anything – like rain, sunrise, temp outside your home or office etc or for that matter somebody else’s action

Step two
Plan for long term and act for short term – Means plan for few years not for life and act for short terms means days not minutes. Do all your work this way

Step Three
Prepare for the worst outcome and get ready for best outcome. Meaning prepare an alternate plan if your action brings in a worst thing and plan for celebration if you get max out of your action.

Step four
When compromise on your family or personal life for others work until it is life saving or world saving action

Step Five
Never give away every thing to others in anticipation – it is applicable to every aspect of life, let it be money secrets, property, knowledge

Step Six
Prepare for Securing all you have in unfortunate departure – including you dear ones life, your money, your knowledge etc

I am going reveal one of the best and worst friend of mankind in my next post just guess if you can. It will be a surprise

Why your life is so dull?

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Life is dull, life is boring, monotonous life is so boring and so on is the usual cribbing of many in life. But ultimately one thing remains unanswered there are so many people on this earth who feel is life evergreen and vibrant and goes on and on. They even enjoy their life to max and they are never bothered about the disgusting thinking of dull life. Why this dichotomy in life? Have you ever thought about this? If not think today and think about this to change the way you live your life.

I have undergone these many a times but I discovered that only one thing that changes the life is “YOU” yes that is you nobody else.

You may be thinking what is this, how can this be possible and many more things you think as possibilities. But fact remains same it is YOU who matters no body else. Because its your life and only you can think about your self from your angle everyone else think about you in their angle rather than from yours so its you who matters not anyone else, not even your wife or parents or kids.

Don’t ask me that “it means wife/ husband, parents, kids are of no consequence”. Who told that they are of no consequence in your life, they are all having their own limits and so they have limited effect on you. You life depends on how “YOU” take them rather than what they have done to YOU.

So if you want life to be vibrant, joyful, lively then change your mind set and see difference in your life. Wait for me in next post, I will show you how simple it is to change the mind set and become happier than what you are.

How to maximise happiness by killing gender Bias?

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Why a Lady cannot be = Gentleman? I asked this question to many and received varied answers. But when I compare my views 15 years back and today its a total contrast, even though I remained on the happier side throughout. My experience 15 years back was different compared to today. I am afraid that this post may go very long (I will try to sat as crispy as possible).

Lady cannot be = Gentleman

just see how the words are written, I could have written it as lady = gentleman, true or false. But I have not written the statement with a ? to ignite the self within you. You may be lady or gentleman but will have your own opinion for this question, but my intention is to say what I felt rather then creating a controversy.

Here we go “how to maximize happiness by Killing gender bias”

So many time a male think he is superior to female by mere fact that he has more musculature because of testosterone hormone. Each and every gov tries to prove both are equal, but fails at grassroots level because of the teachings a child receive from his or her elders , teachers, seniors and off course the great society. Who ever may claim anything there is still a stigma of gender bias left over in most of the societies., it may be varying in the level of bias.

Why we do so?

May be because we are seeing and learning things which are shown to us and then try to analyze the situation on what we learn rather than a neutral analyzing system. Don’t ask me here that “means all decisions are biased due to what we learned in past”. In one way that’s the fact, so if with the things learned in past acts an catalyst to your thinking force to move you towards the neutral position of gender bias then you can think you learned and learning the correct things.

I will bore you, just imagine you have 3 colleagues how are ladies in a working station where ten people work. You are a male, so effectively (if you remain neutral) you have 6 on male side and three on female side. If you are able to reciprocate to male as a friend without love and lust then you have 66% on your side, and if you behave same with ladies then you have 99 to 100% on your side, which is very unlikely. So be neutral in treating people as far as gender is considered, then you will hardly have any blocks or rough surface in working station and that gives to so much time to operate or work at working station you will hardly require extra time to finish your job. Once you finished your job then you have got good amount of time to spend with family and friends.

If you follow the zero gender bias even at home and public places you will be leveraging many things that make you happier and more productive than ever. Think about it before doing gender bias again.

Thanks for reading, I know it may not be very clear what I expressed here but if you use your common sense to analyze the fact with neutral mind you will understand what I meant.