Sep 26th 07
Posted by Sreenivasa in Failure
Stop losing it
How to stop losing confidence is a big question for those who are losing it rather than for those who have not lost it. If you are one who is losing or lost then consider these points before you think anything other than running away from the battle field.
Most of don’t know when lost or losing because we don’t know how we gained it. If we start analysing what we can do about it first thing to do is analyse your life and jot down your strong points in life along with weak points. Once you have done that you know how you built that strong point and why it has became your strong point and same way weak points.
Most of the time it is because we have knowledge of the strong points and practicing them and reverse is true with weak points. But here is a catch even with strong points sometimes we have lost confidence, that’s because we the situation was stronger than our skill and commitment. If we get them back on track half the battle is won. So get ready to get back your lost pride with confidence.
Aug 23rd 07
Posted by Sreenivasa in Failure
Why we lose confidence so easily?
First of all what is confidence?
Literally speaking means
1) Trust or faith in a person or thing.
2) A trusting relationship: I took them into my confidence.
3)
(a) That which is confided; a secret: A friend does not betray confidences.
(b) A feeling of assurance that a confidant will keep a secret: I am telling you this in strict confidence.
4) A feeling of assurance, especially of self-assurance.
5) The state or quality of being certain: I have every confidence in your ability to succeed
Practically Its all about believing in ones own ability and achiving the targets with those abilitites. This is what we lose when we lose confidence. But the
Question is why, why we are so fragile in life?
We are used to achieving targets easily without much work and whole system makes even a confident person in the same way by providing poor training and easy
options. If this is the way the system then most us are vulnerable to losing confidence.So for a healthy society system should make arrangements for
personality development in which confidence is integral part.
We will see next post how to stop losing it
May 7th 07
Posted by Sreenivasa in Failure, Success
Do you have a craving, … for anything? If you don’t have one then I doubt that you have any wishes in your life. If someone doesn’t have craving means she/ he doesn’t have a strong desire for the life.
Have you ever thought about this?
Ok if not first let me get it clear for you. See desire is one thing that drives human from inside for any work. But when this desire start working on human involuntarily then it takes the name craving, in other words desire’s extreme positive aspect is craving. So anyone having a craving means that he or she is having strong desire for the same.
So this desire or craving can be enemy or friend of human mankind depending up on the desire anyone is having. Example an desire for money can be disastrous at the same time it can be most innovative moment of someone’s life depending on the type of work he or she choose to make money.
That means it can act both ways, depending upon the mode of action or type of action mankind will be affected. Some wise person told, ” Desire is the root cause of sorrow”, but if you don’t have desire then what is your motivational factor? So have good desires or craving and achieve much more than what you think is possible in your lifetime.
You many be worried about bad cravings creeping into you, let me show you how to stop them easily in my next post till then see you bye.
