Why We think more Negatively than Positively?

Have you ever thought or given a chance to your mind to think why we think more negatively then positively, most of answers this with NO. Why because we are afraid of accepting the truth that “I have been grilled by seniors that if you ask for any change in life it will be disastorus”.

Here you and I should actually interospect ourselves. Why? because its a fact that we both cannot say NO to, see everyone knows that when there are changes in any setting let it be life or profession or anything for that matter will create atleast few minutes to days what is known as “Change effect”. Means due to change in routine matters some of your life or professional works will be hampered and then settels.

Most of us take this initial part of the changing process and think “thats the end of it”, but we are not ready to accept that only chnages this life lively. If any thinging properly analysed each change in life or profession brought some good thing into this world (this is an unwritten law of nature – chnages should bring in good things. I can debate it anyone, I can show you positive aspect of any thing that has happened let it be even a natural disaster or man made disaster).

So that proves that ” CHANGE IS A RULE” you accept it or not, if you do you live happily if not you think more of negative things. This is why we think more of negativity than positivity.

See you back here with more experience and success failure and plans.

Why we Fear to Fail?

I am asking you “why we fear to fail?”

You know the answer? yes or no, what ever it is – we fear to fail because we have been grilled by our parents , gaurdians or seniors that failure is the most shameful thing to heppen in our life. But actually it is not.

Don’t think me as crazy, I am telling you by experience. This is a fact and you will be surprised to know that most successfull persons were almost thrown out by society as failures. Yes you show me one successfull person who built his or her life without an episode of failure, if you show me I agree that failure is not required to achive success.

Let me remind you while showing me the person who has achived success without failure don’t show me how is supported by whole world to carry on the work and failure has been linked others and success is attached to that successfull human.

I am a professional and I know what is failure and also know how “the fear of failure kills YOU”. I can show you practiclly happening everywhere on this earth, so lesson learnt is don’t bother about self pride failure others comments and future instability, if you do you will lose todays stability.

I hope I made my point clear. If you need simple formula for crisis management then read this here. Good Luck see you with more valuable posts.

Crisis management Simple Formula!

Yes, I told it as “crisis management simple formula” , don’t get surprised because most of the complicated things will have simple answers. Considering the complicated things crisis is considered to be one of the complicated things. So its more likely to have simple answer than the complicated one. SO why don’t you try this any of the crisis you want to come out of it.

Here we go step by step-

1. Just think about the worst possible effect of your crisis
2. Now think about best possible out-come if you don’t act
3. Based on no 1 and 2 you decide what you want out of the crisis
4. Now its time act – its just like reverse engineering any thing, you know what you want you just put energy required to complete it, so you have saved time, money, energy and best of all you the solution what you wnat out of the crisis.

I know the its easier said than done but thats the way it should be. Watch for some exciting posts which are coming up.