Sep 26th 07
Posted by Sreenivasa in Failure
Stop losing it
How to stop losing confidence is a big question for those who are losing it rather than for those who have not lost it. If you are one who is losing or lost then consider these points before you think anything other than running away from the battle field.
Most of don’t know when lost or losing because we don’t know how we gained it. If we start analysing what we can do about it first thing to do is analyse your life and jot down your strong points in life along with weak points. Once you have done that you know how you built that strong point and why it has became your strong point and same way weak points.
Most of the time it is because we have knowledge of the strong points and practicing them and reverse is true with weak points. But here is a catch even with strong points sometimes we have lost confidence, that’s because we the situation was stronger than our skill and commitment. If we get them back on track half the battle is won. So get ready to get back your lost pride with confidence.
Aug 23rd 07
Posted by Sreenivasa in Failure
Why we lose confidence so easily?
First of all what is confidence?
Literally speaking means
1) Trust or faith in a person or thing.
2) A trusting relationship: I took them into my confidence.
3)
(a) That which is confided; a secret: A friend does not betray confidences.
(b) A feeling of assurance that a confidant will keep a secret: I am telling you this in strict confidence.
4) A feeling of assurance, especially of self-assurance.
5) The state or quality of being certain: I have every confidence in your ability to succeed
Practically Its all about believing in ones own ability and achiving the targets with those abilitites. This is what we lose when we lose confidence. But the
Question is why, why we are so fragile in life?
We are used to achieving targets easily without much work and whole system makes even a confident person in the same way by providing poor training and easy
options. If this is the way the system then most us are vulnerable to losing confidence.So for a healthy society system should make arrangements for
personality development in which confidence is integral part.
We will see next post how to stop losing it
Jul 25th 07
Posted by Sreenivasa in Colour
Do you believe in this different colour of clothes make any difference to your mood? Then better know it more rather than thinking about it. There are many colors in life you may not want to wear it but that may be actually suiting you.
This is not a trial based data facts or some scientific research paper, so be warned that this is just an experience in life which I am expressing here for he sake helping others with my experience. Try to consult you health professional or concerned professional authority before changing any matter pertaining to your life which you may feel is important in your life.
Ok Coming back to topic of today, white color supposed to be one which promotes peace. SO when ever you need a mind with peace use white cloths (See every one knows white cloth is good in summers, so here I am not covering the scientific part). Black is considered as royal color, meaning it absorbs so many non-senses, so when ever you want to be generous to others wear black dress. Black has many other effects also but important effect is sufficient. Green indicative of prosperity use it when you want be naturally fresh. Saffron (orangish) color is indicative of sacrifice so when ever in a mood of giveaway ten use orange color.
There is no end to describe the effects of cloth color on life on day to day basis. So simplest thing to notice here is different color has difference mood effect so try hem and choose them. Have wonderful colorful life.